frequently asked questions
everything you might be wondering, all in one place.
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our wedding will take place on saturday, march 27, 2027, at moller villa in jing'an, shanghai, china. the ceremony begins at 3:00pm, followed by cocktail hour, dinner, reception celebrations and an after-party.
for the complete schedule, please visit our wedding day page.
我们的婚礼将于 2027年3月27日(星期六)在中国上海静安区马勒别墅举行。婚礼仪式将于下午 3:00 正式开始,随后是鸡尾酒会、婚宴及 After Party。
完整时间安排请查看网站的 「婚礼当天」 页面。
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guest check-in begins at 1:30pm, and we ask everyone to arrive by 2:15pm to allow plenty of time to check in, find their seats and get settled before the ceremony begins at 3:00pm.
宾客签到将于下午 1:30 开始。我们希望所有宾客尽量在 2:15 前抵达,以便有充足的时间签到、找到座位并做好准备。婚礼仪式将于下午 3:00 准时开始。
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please plan ahead and allow extra time for shanghai traffic!
guests arriving after 2:45pm will be asked to wait until the ceremony has concluded before entering. once the ceremony begins, there will be no entry or exit.
请提前规划好出行时间,并为上海的交通状况预留充足时间!下午2:45后抵达的宾客,需要等到婚礼仪式结束后才能入场。 仪式正式开始后,将不再允许宾客中途进出。
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our ceremony will take place outdoors on the lawn at moller villa, rain or shine. the reception dinner and most of the evening celebrations will take place indoors.
我们的婚礼仪式将在 马勒别墅的户外草坪 举行,风雨无阻。婚宴及晚间大部分庆祝活动将在室内进行。
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our ceremony is planned to take place outdoors, rain or shine. we'll share any necessary weather-related arrangements closer to the wedding.
我们的婚礼仪式计划在户外举行,风雨无阻。
如因天气需要做出特别安排,我们会在婚礼临近时通知大家。
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your invitation will specify whether a plus-one is included. if your partner has received their own invitation, they should rsvp separately rather than being listed as your plus-one. unfortunately, we cannot accommodate additional guests who are not included in the invitation.
你的婚礼邀请函会明确注明是否包含携伴名额(Plus-One)。
如果你的伴侣已经收到自己的邀请函,请双方分别提交 RSVP,不要重复将对方填写为自己的携伴宾客。
由于婚礼人数及座位安排有限,我们无法接待未包含在邀请函内的额外宾客,感谢理解!
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yes! you're welcome to capture memories, but please keep your phones on silent and remain in your seats during the ceremony.
we kindly ask that you do not step into the aisle, obstruct the professional photographers or use large devices such as ipads to record.
当然可以!我们很欢迎大家记录这些美好的瞬间,但请将手机调至静音,并在仪式过程中保持就座。
请勿走入婚礼通道、遮挡专业摄影摄像团队的拍摄视线,或使用 iPad 等大型设备进行拍摄。
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absolutely. cocktail hour will include drinks and light bites, followed by a 10-course seated dinner and an evening of celebrations.
当然!
鸡尾酒会期间将提供香槟、鸡尾酒、无酒精饮品及精致小食,随后是正式的 十道式婚宴晚餐,以及晚间的各项庆祝活动。
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the formal reception concludes around 9:30 pm, when the after-party begins. we haven't set a strict end time for the after-party, so come prepared for a long night!
正式婚宴预计在晚上 9:30 左右结束,随后进入 After Party 环节。
After Party 暂时没有设定严格的结束时间。
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the villa suites are reserved for the wedding party during the wedding weekend, from march 26–28.
the adjacent moller hotel is available for individual bookings, although we'd personally recommend exploring some of the other hotels listed on our where to stay page.
3月26日至28日婚礼周末期间,马勒别墅主楼的套房已专门预留给婚礼亲友团使用。
相邻的马勒酒店仍可正常预订,但我们个人更推荐大家参考网站 「上海住宿:住在哪里?」 页面中整理的其他酒店选择。
01 - the wedding
the when, where, and everything in-between
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our wedding is a black-tie event, and we respectfully ask all guests to honour the dress code. think formal eveningwear, elegant fabrics, floor-length gowns, tuxedos and polished accessories. this is your invitation to dress all the way up!
please note that guests who do not follow the dress code will not be permitted to enter the venue.
我们的婚礼着装要求为 Black Tie(黑领结正式晚宴礼服),敬请所有宾客遵守。
女士请穿着正式及地晚礼服,男士请穿着燕尾服或正式西装,并搭配精致得体的配饰。
这一次,就请大家尽情盛装赴约吧!
请特别注意:未遵守婚礼着装要求的宾客,将无法进入婚礼场地。
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ladies are expected to wear floor-length evening gowns in elevated fabrics such as silk, satin, chiffon, velvet, lace or embellished materials. whether your style is understated and elegant or dramatic and glamorous, we encourage you to embrace the occasion.
女士请穿着正式及地晚礼服,推荐选择真丝、缎面、雪纺、丝绒、蕾丝,或带有精致珠饰及刺绣的高级面料。
无论你偏爱简约优雅,还是华丽夺目的风格,都欢迎尽情展现自己的品味!
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a traditional tuxedo with a formal shirt, bow tie and dress shoes is the classic black-tie choice. however, a well-tailored formal suit with a dress shirt, tie and dress shoes is also acceptable. we ask that you avoid casual suits, sneakers and informal attire.
传统的 Tuxedo(礼服式西装),搭配正式衬衫、领结及皮鞋,是最经典的 Black Tie 着装。
不过,剪裁得体的正式西装,搭配衬衫、领带及正装皮鞋,也完全可以接受。
请避免休闲西装、运动鞋及其他过于随意的服装。
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yes! please avoid white, ivory, cream and beige, which are reserved for the bride, as well as red, maroon and burgundy, which are reserved for the wedding party.
otherwise, you're welcome to explore a wide range of colours, including jewel tones, metallics, deep neutrals and other elegant evening shades.
有的!请避免以下颜色:
白色、象牙白、奶油色及米色——这些颜色留给新娘。
正红色、酒红色及深红色——这些颜色留给婚礼亲友团。
除此之外,大家可以自由选择其他颜色,包括宝石色系、金属色系、深色中性色及其他优雅的晚宴色调。
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for the wedding ceremony and reception, floor-length gowns are required. cocktail dresses, midi dresses and shorter hemlines are not appropriate for the formal portion of the celebration. you are, however, welcome to change into a shorter cocktail dress for the after-party!
婚礼仪式及正式婚宴期间,女士必须穿着及地晚礼服。
短款 Cocktail Dress、Midi Dress(中长裙)及其他非及地裙装,不符合正式婚礼的着装要求。
不过,到了 After Party,欢迎大家换上短款派对礼服!
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of course! black tie doesn't mean you have to dress conservatively.
tasteful slits, open backs, elegant cutouts, sequins, beading and statement details are all welcome, provided the overall look remains appropriate for a formal evening celebration.
当然可以!Black Tie 并不代表一定要穿得保守。
设计得体的开衩、露背、镂空、亮片、珠饰及其他精致设计都非常欢迎,只要整体造型仍然符合正式晚宴礼服的要求即可。
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our ceremony will take place on a maintained lawn, so we recommend keeping this in mind when choosing your shoes.
heels are absolutely welcome, although block heels or heel protectors may be more comfortable for the outdoor portion of the day.
我们的婚礼仪式将在修剪整齐的草坪上举行,建议大家选择鞋子时考虑到这一点。
高跟鞋当然没有问题,但粗跟鞋或高跟鞋防陷鞋套可能会让你在草坪上行走得更加舒适。
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absolutely! once the formal celebrations are over, feel free to loosen your ties, change into something more comfortable and get ready to dance.
ladies are welcome to switch into cocktail dresses or shorter party dresses for the after-party. the bride will be changing too!
当然可以!
正式婚礼环节结束后,男士可以松开领带,女士也可以换上更轻便的 Cocktail Dress 或短款派对礼服,准备尽情跳舞!
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we've put together detailed attire guides, colour recommendations and visual inspiration on our theme & attire page.
when in doubt, overdress.
我们已经在网站的 「婚礼主题与着装」 页面整理了详细的着装要求、颜色建议及男女宾客穿搭参考。
拿不准的时候,穿得隆重一点总不会错!
02 - dress code & attire 婚礼着装要求
yes, we really mean black tie.
03 - wedding weekend & other celebrations 婚礼周末及其他庆祝活动
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our main wedding celebration takes place on saturday, march 27, with additional festivities planned around the wedding weekend.
please refer to your invitation and our wedding website for the events you're invited to attend.
我们的正式婚礼将于 3月27日(星期六)举行,婚礼周末前后还会安排一些其他庆祝活动。
请以你收到的邀请函及婚礼网站上的相关信息为准,确认自己受邀参加的活动。
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yes! we're planning an intimate welcome gathering before the wedding. this event is by invitation only, and details will be shared directly with invited guests.
会的!我们计划在婚礼前举办一场小型欢迎聚会,与部分亲友提前相聚。此活动仅限受邀宾客参加,具体安排将直接通知相关宾客。
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not necessarily. while we're excited to celebrate with everyone, some events are smaller gatherings or intended for specific groups of guests. your invitation and any additional event communications will confirm which celebrations you're invited to attend.
虽然我们非常期待和大家一起庆祝,但部分活动属于小型聚会,或专门为特定亲友安排。请以你收到的邀请函及后续活动通知为准,确认自己受邀参加的活动。
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yes. additional events, including the vietnam trip, will have their own invitations or rsvp arrangements where applicable.
04 - travelling to shanghai 上海旅行指南
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visa requirements depend on your nationality and the passport you'll be travelling with.
for canadian passport holders, china's previously announced 30-day visa-free policy was confirmed through december 31, 2026. as our wedding takes place in march 2027, please verify whether this policy has been extended before making travel arrangements.
visit our getting to shanghai page for visa information and official resources.
是否需要办理签证,取决于你的国籍及实际使用的护照。
对于加拿大护照持有人,此前公布的中国 30天免签政策仅确认实施至 2026年12月31日。由于我们的婚礼将在2027年3月举行,请务必确认该政策是否已经延长,不要默认届时仍可免签入境。
具体签证信息及官方申请渠道,请查看网站的 「前往上海:航班及签证信息」 页面。
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we recommend familiarizing yourself with the requirements well in advance.
if a visa is required, the chinese visa application service centre generally recommends applying around three months before your intended departure. always check the latest official requirements, as processing times and eligibility can change.
建议大家提前了解签证申请要求及办理流程。
如果需要办理签证,中国签证申请服务中心一般建议在预计出发日期前约三个月提交申请。
由于签证政策、办理时间及申请条件可能发生变化,请务必以最新官方信息为准。
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we recommend arriving by wednesday, march 24, or thursday, march 25 at the latest (for wedding guests, NOT the wedding party).
if you're travelling from north america or europe, consider giving yourself an extra day or two to explore the city and recover from jet lag.
我们建议大家在 3月24日(星期三)抵达上海,最晚不要晚于3月25日(星期四)。
如果你从北美或欧洲出发,时间允许的话,建议再提前一两天抵达。上海非常值得多留一点时间好好探索,而且给自己留点时间倒时差。
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shanghai has two major airports: pudong international airport (pvg) and hongqiao international airport (sha).
most long-haul international flights arrive at pvg, while sha primarily serves domestic and regional routes. both are accessible by public transportation, taxis and ride-hailing services. we recommend choosing whichever flight offers the best combination of convenience, timing and price.
上海有两座主要机场:浦东国际机场(PVG) 和 虹桥国际机场(SHA)。
大多数国际长途航班会抵达浦东机场,而虹桥机场主要运营国内及亚洲地区航线。
两个机场都可以通过公共交通、出租车或网约车前往市区。建议大家根据航班时间、价格及便利程度,选择最适合自己的航线。
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taxis, ride-hailing services and public transportation are all available.
we recommend setting up alipay and didi before arriving, especially if you plan to use ride-hailing services. you can also ask your hotel about arranging an airport transfer.
可以选择出租车、网约车或公共交通。
我们建议大家在抵达前提前设置好 支付宝(Alipay)和滴滴(DiDi),尤其是计划使用网约车的宾客。
也可以提前联系酒店,询问是否提供机场接送服务。
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jing'an is our number one recommendation, particularly for wedding guests. it's where moller villa is located, and it's central, convenient and surrounded by excellent restaurants, shopping and nightlife.
huangpu is another fantastic option for sightseeing and luxury hotels, while changning generally offers more budget-friendly accommodations.
we've put together an extensive list of recommendations across different neighbourhoods and budgets on our where to stay page.
我们最推荐静安区(Jing'an),尤其是来参加婚礼的宾客。
马勒别墅就位于静安区,这里地理位置优越,交通方便,周边有丰富的餐厅、购物中心及夜生活选择。
黄浦区(Huangpu) 也非常适合观光及入住高端酒店,而 长宁区(Changning) 通常可以找到更多价格实惠的住宿选择。
我们已经在网站的 「上海住宿:住在哪里?」 页面整理了不同区域、不同预算的酒店推荐。
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the main villa is reserved exclusively for the wedding party from march 26–28 and is not available for individual bookings during that time.
however, the adjacent moller hotel accepts regular reservations.
while its location is incredibly convenient, we personally recommend exploring other hotels in the area, as the rooms are more traditional and dated than our preferred accommodations.
3月26日至28日期间,马勒别墅主楼已专门预留给婚礼亲友团,无法接受其他宾客的单独预订。
不过,相邻的马勒酒店仍然可以正常预订。
虽然它的位置非常方便,但由于酒店客房的装修及设施相对传统、略显年代感,我们个人更推荐大家考虑附近的其他酒店。
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not in the way you may be used to!
we recommend using didi, china's major ride-hailing service, which can be accessed through its own app or supported local platforms.
shanghai also has an extensive metro system, which is often faster than driving during rush hour.
中国大陆没有大家熟悉的 Uber 服务。
我们推荐使用 滴滴(DiDi),可以通过独立 App 或其他支持的平台叫车。
上海的地铁网络也非常发达,尤其是在上下班高峰期,搭乘地铁往往比开车更快。
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international credit cards are not accepted everywhere, even at global chains and bigger businesses.
we strongly recommend setting up alipay and wechat pay and linking a supported international credit card before arriving. mobile payments are widely used throughout china, so having at least one of these apps ready will make your trip significantly easier.
国际信用卡并不是所有地方都接受。
我们强烈建议大家在出发前设置好 支付宝(Alipay)和微信支付(WeChat Pay),并绑定支持的国际信用卡。
中国的移动支付非常普及,提前准备好这些 App 会让你的旅行方便很多。
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our essentials are alipay, wechat, meituan and a translation app. we also recommend didi for transportation, a local map app and a reliable vpn if you need access to international websites and services.
we've explained what each app does on our travel essentials in china page.
我们最推荐提前下载 支付宝(Alipay)、微信(WeChat)、美团(Meituan)及翻译软件。
另外也建议准备滴滴、国内地图 App,以及在需要使用国际网站或服务时适用的 VPN。
我们已经在网站的 「中国旅行必备指南」 页面详细介绍了每个 App 的用途。
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many international platforms, including whatsapp, instagram, facebook and google services, are restricted on mainland chinese internet connections.
if you need access to these services, research and arrange a suitable connectivity solution before travelling. we recommend reading our travel essentials guide before departure.
在中国大陆的网络环境下,WhatsApp、Instagram、Facebook 及 Google 等国际平台通常受到访问限制。
如果你需要使用这些服务,建议在出发前提前了解并准备合适的网络连接方案。
具体建议请查看网站的 「中国旅行必备指南」 页面。
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we recommend arranging mobile connectivity before arriving, whether through international roaming, a compatible travel esim or a local sim card.
a vpn may also be useful depending on which websites and services you need to access. availability and performance can change, so check your options before departure.
PLEASE NOTE: the new iPhone 18 esim is NOT compatible in mainland china! you will need to bring an older iPhone to have data for your trip, or hotspot with your partner’s data.
建议大家在抵达中国前就安排好手机网络,可以选择国际漫游、兼容的旅行 eSIM 或中国本地 SIM 卡。
如果你需要访问某些国际网站或服务,VPN 也可能有所帮助。
由于不同网络方案的可用性及稳定性可能发生变化,建议出发前提前确认。
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so much!
we've put together our personal guide to shanghai, including favourite restaurants, shopping streets, neighbourhoods, city walks, sightseeing spots and a few local recommendations.
visit our explore shanghai page for all the details.
我们专门整理了一份属于我们的上海私人推荐指南,包括最喜欢的餐厅、购物街区、特色街道、Citywalk 路线、热门景点,以及一些本地人才知道的好去处。
欢迎查看网站的 「探索上海:城市漫步与推荐」 页面。
05 - rsvp & invitations 邀请函与出席确认
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please refer to your invitation for the rsvp deadline. we kindly ask that you respond by the specified date, as we need to finalize guest numbers, seating arrangements and other wedding details in advance.
请以邀请函上注明的 RSVP 截止日期为准。
由于我们需要提前确认宾客人数、座位安排及其他婚礼细节,敬请大家在指定日期前完成回复。
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please use the rsvp link provided in your digital invitation and on the website to complete the questions to confirm your attendance.
请通过电子邀请函中的 RSVP 链接填写相关问题,并确认是否出席婚礼。
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yes, if you each received your own invitation, you must each submit your own rsvp. most of our friends have been invited individually, including those attending as couples.
please do not list your partner as your plus-one if they have received their own invitation.
需要!如果你们双方都收到了各自的邀请函,就需要分别提交 RSVP。我们大部分朋友都是以个人名义收到邀请函的,包括情侣及夫妻。
如果你的伴侣已经收到自己的邀请函,请不要再将对方填写为你的 Plus-One,以免重复统计。
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your invitation will indicate whether you're invited with a plus-one.
if your invitation does not include one, please do not add an additional guest. if your partner has their own invitation, they should respond separately.
你的邀请函会注明是否包含 Plus-One(携伴名额)。
如果邀请函没有包含携伴名额,请不要自行添加额外宾客。
如果你的伴侣收到了自己的邀请函,请双方分别回复。
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if your plans change after you've submitted your rsvp, please contact our designated wedding party contacts as soon as possible.
we'll do our best to accommodate changes, although adjustments may not be possible once final arrangements have been confirmed.
如果提交 RSVP 后行程发生变化,请尽快联系指定的婚礼亲友团负责人。
我们会尽力协助调整,但在宾客人数及座位安排最终确认后,可能无法再接受更改。
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please include any dietary restrictions or food allergies in your rsvp, if prompted.
if you have a serious allergy or specific dietary requirement that needs additional attention, please contact our wedding party in advance so we can coordinate with the venue.
如果 RSVP 表格中有相关问题,请填写你的食物过敏或特殊饮食需求。
如果你有严重过敏或需要特别安排的饮食要求,请提前联系婚礼亲友团,以便我们与场地方沟通。
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we understand that plans can change, especially when international travel is involved.
if you're no longer able to attend, please let our wedding party know as soon as possible so we can adjust the arrangements accordingly.
我们理解计划有时会发生变化,尤其是涉及国际旅行时。
如果你在确认出席后无法参加,请尽早通知婚礼亲友团,以便我们及时调整相关安排。
06 - communication & questions 联系方式与婚礼通知
who to contact & how to stay updated. 有问题找谁?最新消息在哪里看?
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important wedding announcements, reminders and updates will be shared through our whatsapp wedding community and wechat group. we encourage everyone to join the appropriate communication channel so you don't miss anything important.
所有重要的婚礼通知、提醒及最新安排,都将通过我们的 WhatsApp 婚礼社区及 微信群发布。
建议大家加入相应的群组,以免错过重要信息。
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our whatsapp community is the main communication hub for our wedding guests.
we'll use it to share announcements, reminders and important information leading up to the wedding. there's also a dedicated english questions group where you can ask questions.
WhatsApp 婚礼社区是我们为宾客建立的主要沟通平台。
我们会在这里发布婚礼通知、重要提醒及相关安排,同时也设有专门的英文问答群,方便大家提问和交流。
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coming soon
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please use the dedicated questions — english group in our whatsapp community or the chinese questions group on wechat.
you can also contact the designated wedding party members listed on our wedding party page.
英语宾客可以在 WhatsApp 社区的 Questions — English 群中提问,中文宾客则可以在微信群中提问。
你也可以联系网站 「婚礼亲友团」 页面列出的指定联系人。
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during the wedding weekend, please direct questions or requests for assistance to our designated wedding party contacts.
their names and contact information can be found on our wedding party page.
婚礼周末期间,如有任何问题或需要协助,请直接联系指定的婚礼亲友团负责人。
相关人员的姓名及联系方式可以在网站 「婚礼亲友团」 页面找到。
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we love you all, but the bride and groom will officially be off duty for wedding questions during the two weeks leading up to the wedding and throughout the wedding weekend.
we kindly ask that you direct any questions, requests or logistical concerns to our wedding party instead. we promise they are much better equipped to help you than two people who are probably running around getting married!
婚礼前两周以及整个婚礼周末,新郎新娘将正式暂停处理所有婚礼相关问题!
如有任何疑问、特殊需求或需要协助的事项,请直接联系指定的婚礼亲友团负责人。相信我们,他们一定比两个正在忙着结婚的人更有能力及时帮到你!